by Katrina on Sun Oct 23, 2005 10:09 pm
I just got looking through this forum again and really wanted to reply to this post, even though it's been a long time.
For me, there are two main points in this story. The first is about suffering and the human condition. It raises questions concerning the necessity of suffering and how it is to be dealt with, as well as how it affects us as human beings. Reb Saunders knows how important it is for his son to be able to empathize with those who suffer, and he imposes a very strict discipline on him as a means of teaching him that empathy. But for a lot of people, that also raises some questions of, for lack of a better word, ethics. Is it really right for a person to impose that kind of deep emotional suffering on another person, all for the sake of a great big object lesson?
The second is the long-lasting and deep nature of true friendship. So often I think I am completely unwilling to be a true friend. I look around at the people I consider my friends, and sometimes I have to ask myself just how deep my friendship for them really runs -- how much would I really be willing to go through to remain friends with them, and how much would I take before just giving up and deciding that it wasn't that important anyway because I can always make new friends?
"Books are not to be believed, but to be subjected to inquiry."
--Umberto Eco, The Name of the Rose